Life has been pretty boring lately. Which isn't such a bad thing. We have had some good times with friends and family. We are in the last month before life starts changing drastically. We are moving..it sucks and I am not looking forward to it. We are going from about 1200 square feet to like 800-ish maybe. It's an apartment at my Mom's house so this also mean no rent or lease. So we are free to move on as soon as buying can happen. Joe starts school and some days we won't really even see each other aside from bed time. We are taking this opportunity to pay off some debt and make some good choices financially. I am going to be lonely and have a lot more time. Which I am not used to. So anybody free on Monday and Wednesday nights I would love to meet up or visit. When Joe and I first got married we worked crazy shifts and barely saw each other. But that was 4 years ago and I haven't had that much time to be independent since then. I have realized that I rely on Joe for a lot of things. I don't like going places alone anymore. Until I began really hanging out with my bff Jessi I never really even went out without Joe. I love Joe and I also Love my time away from him. We all need that time apart. I think this is going to be a good thing for us. I hope I will be able to use my new independence to connect with my friends who I don't get to spend a lot of time with now. I want to just get back to being me. I am sure that sounds cheesy but I do feel a little lost right now.
Next week Joe and I will be married for 5 years. It's so strange to think what we have made it through in all this time. Some days it seems like its an eternity and others its like it all happened yesterday. To be honest our relationship is pretty strong. We have our moments like everyone else. We fight..sometimes badly. I feel just like we did when we got married. I love him very much. He is the only person who can make me fuming mad and then make me laugh an instant later. :) So next week is Happy 25th Birthday to Joe and Happy Anniversary to us!
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a transition like that would be tough, but you guys will find a way to make it work. logan & i are usually just hanging around so if you want to hang out some night, let me know!
happy early anniversary! :)
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, they say. I'm going to be in the same boat as you. Joe's classes are at home, but they're VERY time consuming. Most evenings are spent with his head in the computer doing work while life goes on around him lol but like you said we'll get to have more time to hang out and stuff too. It won't be the easiest thing ever but we'll get through it. Things will work out financially too. Really being at your moms will help so much!
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